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Femmes Readers Respond to Bishop Loverde’s Altar Girl Decision
Many thanks
for all your good work on behalf of authentic Catholics! Doesn't this seem
odd? Young men serve as altar boys and we pray they will aspire to the priesthood.
It's the whole purpose of training our male youth in reverence for the altar
of God and the priesthood.
Women will NEVER be ordained priests, per John Paul II and reaffirmed
by Benedict XVI. Isn't it a dirty trick to put young girls in an environment
where their activities will be preparation for frustrated aspirations?
Moreover, how will the current altar boys feel about girls in the sacristy
with them. Don't little pubescent girls get flirty?
Latin Mass is GREAT news! But doesn't it seem like it's being offered
to placate us into accepting girls on the altar? Who's writing the rules
about hairdo, makeup, nose rings, etc? Isn't putting girls on the altar
of God asking for LOTS of troubles?
Lynn Bateman
Alexandria, VA
When
Bp. Loverde launched his $75 million capital campaign, I said
that once the campaign was over and the pledges were all fulfilled he
would announce that the diocese was now allowing girls to serve at the
altar during Mass. Sadly, my prediction was correct. Many years ago [a
priest in the diocese] was telling me about the meeting Bishop Keating
called with all his priests. He asked how many of the assembled were altar
boys. Almost all raised their hands. Bp. Keating then asked how many believed
that having been an altar boy was a factor in discerning their call to
the priesthood. Again, almost all raised their hands. Seeing this, Bp
Keating wisely said, "Then I see no reason for altar girls"
or words to that effect. He clearly saw the link from altar boy to priest;
and wisely, I believe, maintained the long-standing tradition.
Let us continue
to pray for Bp Loverde. He is constantly urging families to pray that
God call one of their children to the priesthood and religious life….
Sadly, he has just taken away one of the primary means God has used over
the centuries to issue that call. I, for one, am reluctant to allow my
youngest boys to become altar boys if they are going to have to do so
with girls. From my perspective, the female presence will impinge upon
the all-male priest-server bond that is formed before, during and after
Mass.
Thomas Minarik
Catharpin,
VA
A
priest I knew a long time ago had been appointed as a low-on-the-totem-pole
assistant pastor in a parish that already had altar girls. He
had neither the seniority to simply abolish them, nor the heart to say,
“No, girls, just scram, go away, begone!” So his diplomatic,
sensitive-to-feelings, yet effective strategy was: 1) to make sure the
boys wore traditional cassock and surplice while the girls covered their
hair with veils like nuns and wore modest, simple long dresses; plus 2)
he gave them distinctly different roles. As I remember it, the girls came
out BEFORE Mass, put the altar cloth on the altar, lit the candles, and
arranged the sacramental items on the credenza. Typically feminine: like
daughters setting the table, like Jewish mothers lighting Sabbath candles.
Then the girls withdrew from the scene altogether and stood with the choir.
Then the boys came out and did the Mass-server thing. After Mass, the
girls came out and led the rosary. The point was a deliberate re-emphasis
on separate masculine and feminine roles. And that struck just the right
chord in my humble opinion.
It’s
like harmonious music: everybody can sing, but everybody should sing the
part that’s suited to them: Female sopranos! Male basses! And, for
God’s sake, no castrati!
Julianne
Wiley
Johnson City,
TN
I
always thought that Bishop Loverde would throw the Tridentine Mass
bone out there to mute the criticism when he finally approved altar girls.
If he really was sincere about taking a balanced approach, he would offer
the Tridentine Mass in every parish, just like he is now allowing altar
girls in every parish. P.D. Via e-mail
When Bishop Loverde
was installed as Bishop of Arlington he visited several churches. At St.
Andrew the apostle in Clifton I knelt and kissed his ring as a sign of
respect for his office and asked him to provide the Traditional Mass in
the Diocese…. My request and subsequent telephone requests over
the following years were ignored. Meanwhile our family attended the Traditional
Mass at St. Mary’s in Washington, D.C…. every Sunday since
1991.
In 2004
our son was to be married and again I requested a Mass, just one
Mass….Our request was again refused with no explanation. From 2004
to 2005 I wrote letters requesting the Traditional Mass…starting
with documenting my verbal communications in June 2001. The responses
to our requests demonstrated the resistance to having this Mass along
with the stonewalling techniques: “Bishop Loverde is in the final
phase of the preparation for the liturgical option” (September 27,
2004), “The delay in the announcement of this liturgical celebration
is due to some unforeseen complications in the final details. These issues
are expected to be resolved soon.” (January 29, 2005), “In
reference to the announcement, there has been no precise date for the
announcement.” (February 22, 2005). It is appalling that the abuse
of having girl altar boys is so readily provided, when the Traditional
Mass was suppressed and is now only stingily granted by Bishop Loverde.
Madeline
Jordan
St.
Louis, MO
The
letter from Bp. Loverde to Margaret McBride [Refers to letter
addressed to a parishioner at Our Lady Queen of Peace March 15, 2004 where
the bishop stressed his desire for altar girls.] answered a question
I had many years ago. Did Bishop Loverde implement female alter
servers throughout our diocese (Ogdensburg) when he came here?
Initially, because
some parishes had already implemented altar girls (in direct disobedience),
I was unsure if Loverde was the culpable bishop for the breach. He openly
admits in his letter to Ms. McBride that he did indeed implement female
altar girls throughout our diocese. We are praying for you.
D.M Ogdensburg, NY
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